revolvement

in this world, every single thing is inter related and we need each and every elements of it in order to co exist with every thing around us harmoniously...many moments in our lives, most of us only looks at our own, focused on our own lives and the scope of seeing things around us is so narrow even at times we tend to feel that everything revolves around us and we are everything and solely everything in this entire world, well maybe only "your world"...and that is where we start to miss out things around us...

when we put our hands into water and we tried to hold as much water as we can with our hands...no matter how hard we tried to close the gaps of our fingers to prevent the water from escaping our grip, the water will still escape your grip eventually even you strain your hands as much as you can, you can only lengthen the process of it...but if we were to let our hands be free effortlessly within the water, the water is actually all around your hands...

so why do we need to try so hard to hold on to things which is impermanent where we can try to let it go and let our hands run freely under the water where what we obtain might not be what exactly what we wanted but then the joy of it definately is more than when we stubbornly wanting something that we all know wont last...in fact nothing in our lives is permanent...so why torture ourselves and stubbornly wanting something that will eventually wither....let go of your heart and stop grasping your life so hard trying to force everything out of something where everything you wanted is already around you...